Created by Cecilia and Tom, who live this path every day
🕊️ Daily Rhythm at Thrive:
• 🌅 Morning Quiet (7–9 a.m.) – Optional meditation or reflection
• 🏡 Daytime – Work, school, or personal projects; come and go freely
• 🤝 Weekly House Gathering – One evening of shared check-ins
• 🧘 Weekly Practice Group – Communication for Connection or All Parts Welcome or Grounding into Presence
• 💬 One-on-One Check-Ins – 20-minute supportive conversation
Thrive began with our shared desire to create a home where honesty, connection, and wholeness can flourish.
Tom’s path through recovery and Cecilia’s own inner journey taught us that real change happens when people gather in truth, listen deeply, and support one another without judgment.
Sobriety here means more than avoiding substances—it’s meeting yourself fully, releasing what holds you back, and opening your heart to new possibilities.
Thrive is more than a sober living home. It’s a welcoming space where personal stories of resilience and growth are honored, and transformation becomes part of everyday life.
At Thrive, growth doesn’t come from perfection—it comes from honesty, openness, and real connection. These are the values we live by, together.
Want to see more of what shapes our home? You'll find the rest of our guiding principles in the Common Questions About Thrive section.
Speak truthfully with myself and others
Stay curious, let go of certainty, and allow understanding to unfold
Show up real and support one another’s growth
Meet the people who will walk beside you on your journey
Owner & Co-Creator
Owner & Co-Creator
Hi, I’m Tom. For the past eight years, sober living hasn’t just been my work — it’s been my home. I first entered a sober living house as a resident myself, learning firsthand what it takes to rebuild a life from the inside out. Not long after, I began managing and mentoring in a men’s sober-living community, where I’ve spent the last seven years living alongside the men I support.
I also hold a license in chemical dependency counseling, and I’ve worked inside treatment centers, which taught me a lot about clinical care. But my heart belongs here, in the day-to-day of sober living — in the kitchens, living rooms, and walks around the neighborhood — where real growth and connection happen.
Thrive is a passion project between Cecilia and me. We built it with love, care, and a belief that a sober house can be more than a place to stay clean. It can be a place to wake up to your life, to learn new ways of living, and to be met with honesty and respect. That’s the kind of home we’re creating. I’m honored you’re here reading this, and if our paths cross, my hope is that you feel welcomed, supported, and seen.
Thanks for taking the time to be here,
Tom
I grew up deeply connected to the unseen — sensing energy, feeling the presence of spirit, and finding peace in nature. For a long time, I carried a bright inner light that made me feel whole and alive. But as I moved into adulthood, that light slowly dimmed. I lost myself in trying to please others, in perfectionism, and in a long relationship where I stopped trusting my intuition. Eventually, I woke up one morning feeling like a shell of myself — afraid, anxious, and disconnected. That was my awakening.
One ordinary morning, while pouring a cup of coffee in the kitchen, something shifted inside me.
It’s hard to explain — just a quiet, unmistakable sense that life had opened in a new way.
From that moment, I began to see myself, and the world, with more clarity and compassion.
That simple turning point continues to guide me: a reminder that change can arrive in the smallest moments, and that healing often begins when we least expect it.
Through affirmations, energy work, and the guidance of wise teachers and community, I began to rebuild from the inside out. I discovered that the light I thought I had lost had never left me — it was simply waiting to be remembered.
Today, I walk through the world with more ease and grace. My daily practice of grounding and affirmation keeps me rooted in truth, compassion, and peace. At Thrive, I hold space for others who are ready to rediscover their own light — especially those who feel stuck, afraid, or alone.
My hope is that every person who walks through our doors begins to feel what I did:
that healing is possible,
that love is already within you,
and that coming home to yourself is the most powerful journey of all.
I look forward to meeting you,
Cecilia
Thrive is lovingly tended by its two founders, Cecilia Thelin and Tom Mitchell, whose calm presence sets the tone for the home.
Together they create an atmosphere that is relaxed, welcoming, and easy to be around—a place where conversations flow naturally at the kitchen table and residents feel truly heard.
Cecilia brings a gentle wisdom shaped by being the mother of three and by years of walking alongside people in recovery. Residents often describe how effortless it feels to talk with her, trusting her with their stories and staying connected long after they move on.
Tom adds his own depth as a person in long-term recovery, offering perspective and steady guidance.
He knows firsthand how valuable it is for residents to experience a balanced environment—one that includes a strong, compassionate female presence alongside steady male support.
Both Cecilia and Tom have seen how substance use touches families and communities.
Creating Thrive was a natural step for them: a way to combine their experience and resources to offer a single, carefully nurtured home where sobriety is the foundation and wholeness is the goal.
The monthly fee is $1,200 per resident.
This covers your private or shared bedroom, all utilities (electric, water, internet), household supplies, and a fully furnished home with shared kitchen and living areas.
It also includes weekly house gatherings, optional practice groups, and twice-weekly supportive check-ins with Tom or Cecilia.
There are no extra program fees—everything you need to feel at home and supported in your recovery is included.
🌅 Morning Quiet (7–9 a.m.)
Begin the day with space for meditation, reflection, or simply a calm start. Optional, but always available.
🌿 Daytime Flow
Time for work, school, or personal projects. Residents come and go freely while staying connected to the house.
🤝 Weekly House Gathering
One evening each week we circle up as a group — sharing, listening, and supporting one another in honest conversation. No lectures, no fixing - just real connection.
🧘 Weekly Practice Group
Rotating gatherings that invite real connection:
• Communication for Connection Group — practicing honest dialogue and deep listening.
• All Parts Welcome Group — a circle where every part of you is invited to be heard.
• Grounding into Presence Group — slowing down together to return to calm and clarity.
💬 One-on-One Check-Ins
Short, twice-weekly conversations to reflect on your journey and share what you need.
If a relapse happens, our first priority is your safety and support.
You’ll take a brief stay at a local detox or stabilization program so you can rest and regain balance.
Once you’re cleared, you’re welcome to return to Thrive, and we simply call it a slip.
If a second slip occurs, we’ll talk together about a stronger reset—often a short residential program—to help you get back on solid ground.
After that, you’re always welcome back.
Relapse is never about shame—it’s a moment to receive care and begin again.
We ask for an initial three-month commitment so you have time to settle in and build a solid foundation for recovery.
This minimum also helps keep the house stable, so it doesn’t feel like people are constantly checking in and out.
After those first three months, you’re welcome to stay as long as Thrive continues to support your growth and you remain engaged in the community.
Some residents stay a few months, others a year or more—there’s no set maximum as long as the fit feels right for everyone.
Thrive is ideal for people who are...
🌱 Committed to sobriety and open to personal growth
🌱 Respectful of housemates and shared spaces
🌱 Comfortable with a gentle structure — morning quiet, weekly gatherings, a weekly practice group, and supportive check-ins
🌱 Interested in mindful living, from food choices to daily rhythms
Thrive welcomes adults of all backgrounds, including those who identify as LGBTQ+.
Residents join us at many stages — fresh out of treatment, a few months sober, or rebuilding life after a setback.
What matters most is a willingness to show up, listen, and be real.
Not the best fit...
• Those seeking constant entertainment or distraction
• Anyone unwilling to look inward or participate in community life
• Individuals not yet ready for honesty, structure, or shared responsibility
Our home is for people who want to slow down, heal, and find presence beyond screens and nonstop activity — while still enjoying healthy rest and ease in daily life.
🌿 Resilience in Early Sobriety – building steadiness through change
🌿 Parts Work & Self-Compassion – meeting every part of ourselves with curiosity
🌿 Letting Go of Old Stories – noticing and releasing limiting beliefs
🌿 Living With Curiosity – approaching each day with openness and wonder
🌿 Practicing the Pause – tools for responding instead of reacting
🌿 Grounding in the Present Moment – simple techniques for everyday life
🌿 Listening Deeply – to ourselves, to others, to what’s unspoken
🌿 Healthy Boundaries – respecting yourself and others
🌿 Authentic Connection – sharing without fear of judgment
🌿 Repairing Trust – with family, friends, and ourselves
🌿 Creating Sustainable Routines – structuring days that support recovery
🌿 Mindful Eating & Self-Care – caring for the body with intention
🌿 Money & Simplicity – budgeting and conscious spending
At Thrive, growth doesn’t come from perfection—it comes from honesty, openness, and real connection.
Our core values include:
🌱 Honesty — Speaking truthfully with yourself and others.
🌱 Openness (Beginner’s Mind) — Staying curious, letting go of certainty, and allowing understanding to unfold.
🌱 Authentic Connection — Showing up real and supporting one another’s growth.
🌱 Respect — Caring for the house, the people in it, and yourself.
🌱 Accountability — Taking ownership of your actions with compassion, not shame.
🌱 Presence — Slowing down enough to notice what’s happening inside and around you.
🌱 Integrity — Doing what you say, even in small things.
These aren’t rules—they’re reminders of what helps life here feel grounded, real, and safe.
Thrive isn’t a nonprofit yet — we’re starting small and keeping it personal.
Right now, we’re a locally owned and operated home created by two people who care deeply about this work. As Thrive grows, we plan to move toward a nonprofit structure so that everything we do continues to serve our residents and community directly.
Thrive isn’t for perfection — it’s for willingness. If you’re ready to show up real, we’d love to meet you. Get in touch below.
Thrive is a home where real conversations unfold, support is genuine, and growth takes shape one step at a time. If you're ready to find stability and connection, we're here.
For inquiries: info@thrivebytomandcecilia.org
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